[情報] 2025/02/08 Daily Horoscope
當面對一個控制狂時，最好的策略就是不要讓自己也變成控制狂！
親愛的月之子，你可能現在感到防備，因為某個個性特別強勢的人正試圖把他們的意願強加在你身上。
你或許會想要躲進自己的殼裡，以避免與這個強硬且過於強勢的人發生衝突，但這也不是一個好主意。
相反地，你應該堅持你的立場，表達你的感受。
解釋你的想法，舉例說明為什麼你想按照自己的方式行事。
不要放棄！
When dealing with a control freak, the best strategy is not to become a control freak yourself! You may be feeling defensive now as someone with a particularly strong personality tries to impose what they want to do onto you, dear Moonchild. You may feel inclined to retreat to your shell to avoid the backlash of dealing with someone who is harsh and overly assertive, but that's not a good idea either. Instead, be persistent in your resistance. Explain how you feel. Give examples of why you want to do what you want to do. Don't give up.
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