Re: [問卦] reddit:台灣人沒想像中的友善職場很可怕

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在北京如果你去餐廳吃飯或是看電影，跟隔壁桌聊天也不是很奇怪的事。在台灣想都不會想，可能會被以為神經病瞪你一分鐘。

※ 引述《usnavyseal (usmarine2008)》之銘言：
: https://tinyurl.com/yb9z4pvj
: 剛看reddit 台灣版
: https://i.imgur.com/aeJlO65.png

: 有網友問
: 是什麼讓台灣人友善
: What makes taiwanese people friendly?
: 從小有被灌輸什麼人生哲學嗎
: Is there an underlying philosophy taught since young?
: 網友回答
: https://i.imgur.com/v1D2Acr.png

: 作為一個外國人，台灣有很「好客」的文化，超出我待過的其他地方
: 人們很慷慨，願意花錢或花時間幫我，並拒絕回報，只表示「以後在你的國家招待我吧」: As a foreign visitor I've found Taiwan has a strong "hospitality" culture,
: more than anywhere else I've visited. People have been generous both spending: their time to help out or show me round but also spent money and refused to: let me pay them back. They just said "if I ever visit your country, you can: do the same for me".
: 很多人忽略了，好客很棒，人們友善地幫你
: 在職場上完全相反，很多同事超級沒安全感
: 會盡力讓他們自己看上去比你好，沒有團隊精神
: That's the thing people seem to miss. Hospitality is great, where people are: supposed to be friendly they tend to go over and above what you get in other: places.
: The corporate environment is not like that at all, completely opposite where: a lot of them are super insecure and will do everything they can them look
: better than you. Not team players at
: 有時候在這裡生活精神上有很大壓力，讓我覺得這裡有很多雙面人，在公開場合很假: 台灣人在職場和公開場合是兩種不同的經驗
: 每個國家都有「很假的人」，但我覺得台灣人在公開場合的友善過譽了
: 會讓你被第一次的職場經驗給嚇到
: And that's what makes living here mentally challenging sometimes. Made me
: feel like there's a lot of two faced people, or that they were being too fake: in public. Taiwanese at work and Taiwanese in public are two totally
: different experiences.
: There are "fake people" and such in every country, but I feel like the
: friendliness in public is so overboard that it's kind of shocking the first: time you experience the corporate environment.
: https://i.imgur.com/0DWPOjx.png

: 對誰友善？菲律賓人？印尼人？黑人？白人旅客？看他們跟誰互動吧？
: Friendly to whom? Filipinos? Indonesians? Black people? White tourists? A lot: depends on who they are interacting with
: https://i.imgur.com/IMW6Lrb.png

: 在熱帶國家的人通常會比較「友善」
: 但我看來？台灣人的友善很表面，只有在短時間的互動才會發生
: People in places with warmer climates tend to be more "friendly".
: But in my honest opinion? Taiwanese people are only friendly on the surface: level and only if you interact with them for a short period of time.
: https://i.imgur.com/guOv3ds.png

: 我覺得你的經驗不一樣，我不是白人也不是東亞人，我在這裡的時間，
: 也沒遇到一般白人會有的友善
: 我沒有感受之前在希臘和哥倫比亞得到的友善
: I think your mileage may vary. I am not white and not east Asian. I haven't: felt the friendliness in my time here that, for example, a white tall blond: American would receive. My experience here doesn't approach the friendliness: I felt in places like Greece or Colombia.
: 作為一個高大的金髮美國人，我會說台灣人「友好」但不會說他們「友善」
: 例如我的同事都「友好」，會幫我找東西或翻譯但他們不是我的朋友
: 且經常拒絕的我的邀約，例如晚餐、喝咖啡、去看展等等
: 每個人在這座島上都覺得我不會講中文，跟之前在中國有的大量友善交流不同
: ，在這裏不會發生
: 如果要說有什麼不同的話，這裡的人是遇過最內向的地方之一
: Even as a tall blond American although I'd call the Taiwanese "nice" I
: wouldn't call them "friendly." i.e. although my coworkers are "nice" and will: help me look something up or translate a Chinese word they sure as hell
: aren't my friends and have turned down every invitation to get dinner,
: coffee, go to an art gallery, etc. Everyone on this island just assumes I
: don't speak Mandarin so the multitude of friendly convos I'd have with
: strangers like I would in China just don't happen here. If anything this has: been one of the more introverted distanced places I've ever lived or visited.: https://i.imgur.com/ZmbfQB3.png

: 有些人會直接問我「台灣人是世界上最友善的人吧？你同意嗎？」
: 但我反問他們為何沒次我過馬路時，他們企圖把我撞死，
: 我只會得到「我們也不喜歡那樣，但你同意台灣人是世界最友善的吧？」
: 好像是跟遊戲中的NPC對話
: Some people I meet just ask me straight up "Taiwanese are the friendliest
: people in the world right? You agree with that right?"
: When I ask them if they are so friendly why do they try to mow me down when I: cross the road I get just the "Oh we don't like that either but you agree
: that Taiwanese are the friendliest in the world?"
: Like talking to NPC in a game.
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WAXNSIM 04/17 23:12化外之地就別提了。

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FZ5566 04/17 23:13一把年紀了，這點沒梗的爛東西也發文

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AKB5566 04/17 23:15你可以

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LYS5566 04/17 23:17叔叔阿姨很好聊小孩也很好聊真的把人當

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