[情報] 08/29 the daily horoscope
Have you been listening to what someone in your personal life has been tryingto tell you? It may have recently erupted into an argument, perhaps with accusations that you don't care. You may not understand why that would be the perception, Gemini, since you probably do believe you have been listening. However, there is a big difference between listening and hearing. You may be hearing the words, but are you truly considering them? Are you trying to understand how the other person feels? If not, then you need to listen again.
你是否去聆聽某個在你個人生活中的人試圖告訴你的話?
最近可能爆發了一場爭論,也許你還被指責你不在乎。
你也許不了解對方為什麼會有這樣的感覺,雙子座,
因為你大概相信你的確一直有在聆聽。
然而,在聆聽跟聽到之間有很大的差異。
你也許是聽到了這些話,但是你真的考慮過它們嗎?
你是否嘗試著去了解對方的感受?
如果沒有,那麼你需要再去聆聽一次。
Ps. 如果有誤譯請指教,謝謝。
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