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You have made a difficult decision. It may have been so difficult that you are now starting to doubt it and question whether or not you should start over. D on't second-guess yourself, dear Gemini. You have already gone through the pro cess of searching and analyzing, and you came to a conclusion. Now all you rea lly have to do is follow through on what you decided. As long as you do that,

A volatile subject needs to be discussed, and you have to bring the subject up . The last thing you want is an argument, but you know very well that if you t alk about a certain topic, someone is going to get angry and pick a fight. Yet you do not have to fight back or argue. The purpose of the conversation that you have to have is to make the situation better - not just for yourself, but

In a situation you're now involved in, either in your social circle or at work , the grass might seem a whole lot greener on the other side, metaphorically o f course. You can see that someone else's experience is much better than your own, dear Gemini, and you may be feeling envious. Yet what you're perceiving m ay be enhanced by your imagination and not be as wonderful as it appears to be

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Don't be proud and stubborn today and refuse to accept something you need from someone who offers it to you - even if you believe you should be able to get it for yourself. In a sense, Gemini, by accepting an offer from another person , you are still getting it for yourself because you have put that need out int o the universe, and it has come to you. Sometimes the only thing that blocks y

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Even in the best of relationships, other people might have traits that irritat e us. It is wise to overlook those things in lieu of the bigger picture. Every one has flaws, but if their virtues outweigh their flaws, that can be the basi s for a great connection and a wonderful relationship. Someone in your midst m ay be bugging you a lot right now. This is likely someone you know well, such

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While having too few choices might seem like a problem, having too many can be equally tough problem too. You may find the latter to be the case for you tod ay, dear Gemini, but it isn't going to turn out to be a problem for you at all . Think rationally, eliminate one choice at a time, and by the time you have w hittled the list down to a few remaining options, you will have a much stronge

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An element of fear might be useful to you as you make an important decision - but only if there truly is something to fear. If there is, you can face that f ear realistically and decide if that frightening component can be managed or c onquered. If not, you can move on. However, if the object of your concern does not really pose a threat, then you need to recognize that to make the best de

You may be filled with regret over the way certain things have turned out in y our life, and circumstances are bringing tainted memories to the surface. You may wish you had done everything differently, Gemini - but you didn't, and you can't change that now. Even so, you can't carry guilt or regret with you into the future. You have to let it go if you want to find the best path forward.

You may be in the middle of doing someone a favor, or you may be asked to do o ne very soon, dear Gemini. Yet something that you want to do for yourself migh t also come up for you that conflicts with that objective. The conflict that i t creates for you could be challenging to deal with. It's important to put you r needs first, but if you made a promise to someone else, that's something you

When someone has a phobia - such as a fear of snakes, for example - they may s cream if they see one. That scream might unsettle others and cause them to fee l fearful too - even if they aren't afraid of snakes. After all, we are highly social. We can be deeply affected by our environment and by the prevailing mo od of those who surround us. You may be feeling fearful or agitated now becaus

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With an upcoming choice, the most logical or reasonable choice might not be th e best one. If you look at the pros and cons, you might be strongly inclined t o make a decision that goes against what you are feeling. That's why it is imp ortant to take your feelings and your intuition very seriously. Despite what s eems obvious, if there is something telling you to go in the opposite directio

Every home that is built begins with a foundation. If you build a home on bare dirt, it would be far more vulnerable to shifting and sinking. A foundation o ffers a stable base with support and insulation from the elements underneath t he structure. It resists the erosion of the soil and keeps the structure stead y. Yes, Gemini, a foundation is the most important element. Don't forget your

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When you feel happy and enthusiastic, you can get a lot more done, and you can do it in a better way. Happiness uplifts your spirit and makes you feel capab le and confident. This is no secret. If you are concerned about an endeavor yo u are taking on today, then try to find ways to improve your spirits and feel enthusiastic before you approach this. Think about recent accomplishments. Cal

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You can't let your tangible possessions define you. You are not your car, your house, or your wardrobe, dear Gemini. You probably realize this on the surfac e, but something may be making you feel insecure, and you may be judging yours elf subconsciously on something other than your substance as a person. You are defined by your character and your values. If you aren't yet where you want t

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You may need a lot of help with something new that you are working on, and to you this work is quite important. You may feel on the verge of desperation to get some assistance, but you need to be very discreet and extremely selective in who you ask for help. There may be some element of secret to this, so you w ill want to be sure that the person who assists you can keep a secret and can

Letter writing has become a lost art. Before texting and email, where you coul d jot down your thoughts quickly and send them instantly, people had to write their thoughts out in longhand, put them into an envelope, and mail it. The an ticipation to receive such a letter was exciting and was savored. In general, communication has become instant, with instant gratification. You may have a s

You are not always the most patient person, dear Gemini, because your mind is often going a mile a minute. Unlike many people, you can move from one project to the next with ease and clarity and accomplish a lot very quickly. Someone in your life who moves a bit slower and more methodically does not understand your way, and you may clash at times because of it. When you have to deal with

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You can hold onto memories without clinging to the past. If you hold on too ti ght to what was, you won't move forward in your life in the way you should. An d sometimes, Gemini, letting go of the past means also letting go of certain g oals you had that no longer serve you or your best interests. It can be hard b ecause it might feel like a failure - but it's not a failure at all. If you le

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You may ordinarily be a very outgoing, sociable person who enjoys a good conve rsation. This comes easily to you, dear Gemini. An upcoming encounter, however , might require you to suppress that genial approach and just observe what's h appening. You can engage as necessary, but try to be more of a "fly on the wal l." This could be connected to a plan you will soon set in motion, and if you

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Your mind is always sharp, dear Gemini, but you have a tendency to flit from o ne thought to the next very quickly. Today, however, you might be more focused and able to study the details of a situation you need to resolve. You have be en putting off the resolution of a complex arrangement because it is a bit ted ious, but if you dig into it today, you can make great progress. This might ha

Sometimes, Gemini, you take on a challenge just because it is a challenge! You enjoy the feeling of being dared to do something. You enjoy the energy rush t hat comes with it. And you see it as a way to prove something to yourself and to others. It excites you. Yet not every challenge is worthy of your time. Don 't get so caught up in the "challenge" aspect of a new opportunity that you fa

You are not a judgmental person, dear Gemini, but you may be subconsciously ju dging someone now. Maybe this is because of a choice you have to make, and you want to make the best decision. Therefore, you are taking in what you observe and using that to form an opinion. However, you have to look deeper than that . Even the best of us exhibit negative behaviors from time to time, or we say

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It has been said that "you are what you eat." If you eat processed foods with high sugar content, for example, you aren't going to be as healthy as you woul d if you ate a balanced diet and didn't overindulge. The same thing applies to the things you think, dear Gemini. If you've found yourself getting caught up in a maelstrom of negative thoughts, you're creating negative energy in your

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Have you been feeling mistrustful of someone? Are you picking up clues that yo u can't count on that person, dear Gemini? If so, you need to first examine yo ur reasons for thinking this way. Could it be the circumstances or the situati on, rather than the person? If that's a possibility, then you need to review a ll of that rather than casting doubt on this individual - and potentially caus

You may not agree with someone's opinion during an upcoming social gathering, dear Gemini, but it does not have to develop into a conflict. You may already be aware that someone you are going to encounter is not your type of person an d that they have very different viewpoints from yours. Those viewpoints may fa ll into categories that are very important to you. Instead of interacting on t

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You have not shared how deeply you care for someone who plays a big role in yo ur life. There could be many reasons for this. You might be afraid they'll thi nk you're being overly emotional. Maybe you think that your feelings will not be reciprocated. Perhaps you think that sharing how you feel would make you lo ok weak and vulnerable. None of those are good reasons, dear Gemini. You may f

You are supposed to be feeling happy today. Some people are downright giddy, a nticipating the events of an evening out to celebrate the coming of the new ye ar. You are supposed to feel joyful, excited, and filled with anticipation to kick off a year that will bring happiness and good fortune. You may not see it that way, dear Gemini, but you have to try. This really is the beginning of a

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A friend or loved one might be telling you that your refusal to argue with som eone is giving in or giving up. You know better, dear Gemini. Refusing to enga ge in an argument is a wise choice. It does not mean that you agree with the i nstigator or that you are giving up in defeat. It means that you don't want co ntention in your life, and you know that there is probably another, better way

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You may feel that you have a lot more on your shoulders now than most people. The thought of all that you have to do may be weighing you down, dear Gemini. You may feel panicked at the thought of getting it all done in time. However, the tasks and obligations you have are, overall, pretty great. You are lucky t o have a "problem" like this! Try thinking about it in that way - with gratitu

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Are you feeling a bit pessimistic today, dear Gemini? Just a little bit? You p robably would not want to admit this even if it's true, because you see yourse lf as - and you are generally thought of as - a very optimistic person. That's okay. You can be an optimist and still have negative thoughts. However, becau se you are so naturally bright and sunny, it will be easy to find your way bac

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You may be thinking a lot about the problems you're facing now, dear Gemini. Y ou may be failing to take care of other things you have to do because you are so distracted. This is a good time to take a break from all of that and think only of pleasant, hopeful things. There will always be problems - some big and some small. Yet there will also always be good things in your life, and focus

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Someone may have included you in a group effort. At the time, Gemini, you prob ably felt needed and therefore flattered. However, they may not be tapping int o your talents or your ideas yet, and you are starting to wonder why you ever got involved. Give it a chance. It might take some time before the need for yo ur signature kind of talent will come into play. Don't be insecure about this.

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You may soon discover that you and a loved one - quite possibly a family membe r - have very different recollections of a shared event from the past. This wa s something significant, dear Gemini, and so your polarizing opinions of this could cause a serious rift. It affected each of you differently, and one may n ot understand how or why the other was affected in the way that they were. You

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Some people believe that we have preset destinies and we chose our path before we are born. We choose our own path for learning and enlightenment purposes. Some things on our path involve joy, and some involve struggles and hardships. You may now be going through something tough, Gemini. You may be having a har d time figuring out why you are facing this issue. If you can go by the philos

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An old song can be a lot like a time capsule. When it comes up unexpectedly on the radio, it opens up a lot of memories, thoughts, and emotions you may not have experienced for a long, long time. It brings you back to a time when thin gs were different, for better or worse. You may be in a rather sentimental moo d today, dear Gemini, and things like a song or a fragrance may bring you back

When a person feels "broke," they become very conscious of that lack of money, and it translates into a feeling of insecurity and fear. This kind of thinkin g can affect a person in many areas of life - feeling broke, feeling alone, an d more. When you become very aware of what you do not have, it seems to loom o ver you. The antidote for that is to be more mindful of what you do have that

You do not have to be a professional interior designer to create a home that m akes you feel warm and cozy. You can choose colors for your walls that make yo u happy. You can find furniture that is comfortable and looks good. You can ac cent your home with things you collect, art you love, and lighting that create s just the right atmosphere. Your home may be a big part of your focus right n

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You could get to someone today by pushing their buttons. Someone has angered y ou or insulted you, and you may be upset about it. That's natural, dear Gemini . You might even be imagining all kinds of ways to aggravate that person in re turn, and you might be justified in feeling that way. However, to really get t o this individual, try being kind. If you lash out in the same explosive style

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You may be concerned that you are going to fail against someone you're competi ng with in a new opportunity. You may think that the other party has better co nnections or more resources, and so they will naturally have the edge over you . However, Gemini, your intellect, your passion, your ability to think on your feet, and so many other qualities make you a fabulous candidate. Don't focus

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You might be considering an unusual partnership, dear Gemini. There is somethi ng you want to accomplish, and you may have found it difficult to find the hel p that you need. If you are resorting to a choice that you are not sure about, you are encouraged to go into it wholeheartedly rather than getting started w ith a doubtful mindset. If you go forward thinking optimistically and decide t

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A friend may have or may soon confront you over an issue they're upset about. Don't take it personally. They may be defensive because they are worried about the way you will react. If you don't take it personally, dear Gemini, this is a matter that can be easily resolved. Don't read into what is said. If you ar en't sure about what is meant, then ask. By taking a gentle, inquisitive appro

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Do not allow your impulsive nature to drive you to do something today that you are not quite sure about. Even if you feel unsure only for a moment, you need to pause and think, dear Gemini. You do move quickly, but taking the time to consider your actions before you do something spontaneous will be very importa nt right now. That means any important decisions or questionable ideas should

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You will find what you're looking for in the last place you look. That's such a silly thing to say, yet people say it all the time. Of course you'll find it in the last place you look, because you'll stop looking once you find it! Som eone may be saying that to you now, dear Gemini, because you are looking for s omething you want very much - but it isn't something tangible. However, there

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There is a hobby or an interest that you have neglected for a while. Maybe you have not made the time for it. Maybe it has become a bit dull. Yet it was rea lly good for you because it got you to get out a bit in a carefree mindset rat her than focusing on work or other obligations or worries. You need more of th at kind of thing in your life, dear Gemini. If you find it difficult to get mo

You might be tempted to challenge an authority figure today, dear Gemini, but the timing may not be right to do that. Instead, go along as you must and fulf ill your role, and wait for the right moment to speak up. You are not being re miss by waiting - you are being wise. If you protest at the wrong time, it cou ld backfire on you, and you will not have the power you need to make a change.

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There are all kinds of intelligence, dear Gemini. It's what keeps the world go ing. Some people might excel at math, while others are better at creative thin king. And let's not underestimate the value of emotional intelligence. You may have a specific idea of what you are looking for from someone now for a ventu re that has many requirements. Don't jump to conclusions too quickly based on

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You may have the challenge today of getting everyone on the same page in a gro up consensus. The problem is that you may have to deal with a very diverse gro up of people, and getting them to think alike will be very difficult. However, that's not exactly what you have to do, dear Gemini. They will probably never think alike, yet they may have common goals - and if you can tap into those g

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You have been hiding certain aspects of who you are from someone you are getti ng to know. Maybe you have a preconceived idea of who this person is and what they expect from you, and you are subconsciously molding yourself to fit into that. If you don't present your true self, how can anyone get to know the real you? Don't be ashamed of who you are, dear Gemini - you are a unique and wond

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There may be a few lovely opportunities becoming available to you soon, dear G emini. You may both sense this and see it beginning to unfold. Since you have waited quite some time for this to happen, you probably want to grab every sin gle chance that comes your way, but that might not be prudent. You have to be selective, or you will not be able to give your best attention and passion to

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You may be wishing that a process you are involved in would speed along more q uickly. It has already been quite a while since you got started, and you are a fast-thinking, fast-moving individual whose patience is sometimes challenged. Even so, trying to be patient would be ideal, because you can't force things anyway. Try to fill the time up with productive actions so that you feel like

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Even if your life seems monotonous, tedious, dull, and boring at the moment, y ou can expect things to take an upswing toward a more exciting period. You do crave adventure and movement, and you have been stuck for a while catching up on old business and handling intense matters that required a lot of your focus . Soon, though, you can set off on an adventure that is right up your alley an

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You may have a fantastic resource that you don't realize you have, dear Gemini . This person may be able to help you come closer to achieving something that is important to you. This does not have to be a guessing game. Just think abou t the people in your life who are humble, helpful, and smart. There is someone in your midst who has the experience and the connections - and maybe even som

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Someone may not wish to express an opinion that you are asking for, dear Gemin i. You may think they are just trying to challenge you or drive you crazy. Per haps there is a conflict between you or a power struggle. Maybe this person di sagrees with you. Then again, maybe they have a favorable opinion and don't wa nt to share it because of the resentment between you. Before you can get authe

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If you were home alone late at night and you heard the house creaking, you mig ht become scared. Maybe you would think of a prowler or even a mischievous spi rit! If it were daytime, those thoughts probably would not occur to you, and i t'd likely turn out to be the house settling! Your imagination plays a huge ro le in your perceptions, dear Gemini, and that may be something that is affecti

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You could really use some words of encouragement right now, dear Gemini. It wo uld really be helpful if someone were to tell you they believe in you, that yo u are doing a good job, and that things are going to work out well. Maybe ther e isn't anyone at the present who understands what you are going through and t herefore knows what you need - and you may not want to share it at this time.

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If the elaborate wrapping on a gift is far more beautiful or desirable than th e gift itself, the one opening the gift recipient might end up disappointed. T he way too elaborate wrapping may build wrong expectations! And a wonderful gi ft can easily be wrapped in simple newspaper, which may not look like much but would certainly thrill the gift recipient once unwrapped. You may be looking

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You may be gifted with the metaphorical equivalent of a time machine today, de ar Gemini. You may have the chance to go back and revisit an old mistake or la pse in judgement, getting another chance to do it right. From where you stand now, lingering in regret, this might seem impossible. Yet you shall soon see t hat there is a second chance awaiting you if you choose to take it. This might

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The dynamic between you and someone you know has shifted. You can sense it. Yo u can feel it. Yet you can't quite figure out how or when it happened. This is not necessarily a bad thing, dear Gemini. Up until this point, you may have h ad your guard up with this person. Maybe you were afraid to show your true sel f, to share your true opinions, or to be open about your hopes and dreams. Thi

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You are a very sociable, likeable person. You can have a pleasant conversation with just about anyone from any walk of life. People relate to you and find y our humor and intellect quite interesting. You have gotten so used to the warm reaction you so often receive from others that when it seems like someone doe sn't like you, it can be upsetting. You may have encountered someone recently

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The world has become more polarized lately, and people have become quicker to render judgement. When we meet someone who seems to have different views from ours, we may not even be open to the possibility that we will also have some c ommon ground or interests and some shared beliefs - and so you may automatical ly dismiss the prospect of getting to know that person. However, you have to e