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[情報] 12/05 the daily horoscope

看板Gemini標題[情報] 12/05 the daily horoscope 作者
Nicolas01
(Nicolas)
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Are you turning to someone for advice, or are you asking that person's opinion because you want their approval? That may seem like a subtle difference on the surface, dear Gemini, but it is huge. If you are really just looking for feedback and opinions on something you are doing, with the goal of objectively assessing your effort to make it as great as possible, that's a wise thing to do. But if your real goal is for that person to approve, then you need to back up a bit. If you feel good about what you're working on, you shouldn't need anyone else's endorsement.

你是否正向某個人尋求建議,或者你是詢問某個人的意見因為你想要他們的認可?

那似乎在表面看起來有點微妙的不同,親愛的雙子們,

但是它是巨大的(不同)。

如果你真的是尋求對你正在做的事情的回饋和意見,

目標是客觀地評估你的努力,使其盡可能的出色,

那是明智的做法。

但是,如果你真正的目標是尋求某個人的認可(贊同),

那麼你需要退一步。

如果你對自己所做的事情感覺良好,

你不應該尋求其他人的背書。

Ps. 如果有誤譯請指教,謝謝。

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